A weekend ago at Tembo, I had my first up-close experience with the dirty secret of Western dignity: the parade of young Kenyan women and men being courted by middle-aged tourists. Sex tourism is accepted by the locals as a necessary evil. These young men and girls do need to make a living. Its market strength is such that before anybody else hits the dance floor, the prostitutes are out there strutting their stuff for potential clients. As the night heats up, so does the business. Mustachioed men, clad in their Birkenstocks and tropical t-shirts sidle up to barely post-pubescent girls and make their intentions known with their hands, pelvises and kisses. Likewise, I witnessed two fifty year-old women hold court with two native Kenyan men apiece. The four men were dressed in traditional Masai dress complete with head feathers and colourful sarongs. Debauchery of this sort has even prompted the whoring out of traditional culture.
My own moral compass nearly got me into some trouble that night. Some British tourist was enjoying being sandwiched between two beautiful and tall Kenyan prostitutes. The scene of this stubby tourist getting his rocks off on these girls made me a little sick, so I pointed it out to my group of friends and laughed him off. Unfortunately, he didn't take too kindly to my mocking and made a point of flipping me off, which made me laugh even more. Coming over to me, he asked me if I had a problem with him and if we needed to settle it. Harnessing my best self-control, I calmly told him there wasn't a problem. He turned away and I gave him a patronizing pat on the back as he walked off. What a real man, I suppose, sticking up for himself like that. Although - a real man wouldn't have to buy his sexual gratification.
In my next few posts I'll try to delve into more of the work we do here. It has not been all fun and games here, and the schedule looks to get a lot busier. Upcoming this week we have three outreach sessions with the Matatu driver sector, a population segment that is at high risk of contracting HIV. Some of the issues we will tackle are gender roles, HIV stigma and drug use. It definitely portends to be an interesting session.
But alas, I only have so much time. I'll do my best to post ASAP. Thanks once again for following my adventure here. Miss you all.
Hey Mike,
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"A weekend ago at Tembo, I had my first up-close experience with the dirty secret of Western dignity: the parade of young Kenyan women and men being courted by middle-aged tourists."
> This sounds pretty Puritanical. Why would you want to condemn a free and non-coercive exchange between the sex worker and the solicitor? Especially one that has the potential to raise the quality of life for both individuals involved?
:) - Pat (trying to start shit in lieu of schoolwork)
I'm not condemning the sex trade. I'm condemning these tourists for their extreme lack of self-consciousness and flaunting of their purchased sexual gratification. I mean, it's like buying condoms at the drugstore. You don't go around announcing that you're doing it. You slyly slink away behind the aisle until nobody is at the cash register and make your move.
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